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Kids Destroy Productivity
Today wasn't the most productive day. Kids will do that.
As a solopreneur, I can't afford to have these days often.
And then I think about why I started my company 6.5 years ago - to be there for my kids, to own my time and choices without asking permission.
So with one teen recovering from a level 1 concussion, and the other teen fighting a sinus infection for a week that turned into high fevers the past few days, and got diagnosed with walking pneumonia today, I remember why I became a business owner.
I put my kids first today because they needed me. So if that means I'm behind in my productivity, I'm fine with that.
When my younger son tells me "You take good care of me, thanks Mom." I know I made the right choice.
When my older son appreciates the food I put in front of him because his appetite is back, I know I had made the right choice.
When I can be present and monitor my kids for symptoms, keep track of the various medicines they take, and reduce screen time because it's really not good for a day or two after a concussion, I know I made the right choice.
As they leave for a few hours to be with their Dad, I can now focus on me, my business, and maybe even spend some time with my parents who are taking a break from their global travels to just hang out as adults.
I have said in the past "kids destroy productivity," I also recognize I wouldn't have done today any different, even if it meant missing a meeting with my Chamber team, and rescheduling another as waited to pick up his prescription to get it in his system as soon as possible.
Luckily, I meet with people who demonstrate patience and flexibility...and understand the importance of caring for our families.
To all the working parents out there, whether you own a business or not, I see you. I hear you. I feel you. But more important, your kids see you and love that you take care of them.
There will always be more work to do. The pull of having productive days is real.
Just remember, for most of us, our kids are only home for a limited time. You may not always be able to be there, or quite frankly need to be there. When you do have a chance and a choice, show up for what matters...or more accurately, 'who' matters.
